If My Parent No Longer Knows Me: Buddhism on Dementia Grief Before Death
Dementia creates a grief that has no funeral. Your parent is still alive but the person you knew has vanished. This article covers what ambiguous loss is, why dementia grief is so disorienting, how impermanence teaching applies without being dismissive, meeting who they are now vs. clinging to who they were, tonglen and metta at the bedside, guilt about anger toward someone who is ill, and the loneliness of long-term caregiving.